Crossed Libri GmbH Crossed Signals Paperback

In Crossed Signals, certified emotionally focused couples therapist and ADHD relationship expert Grazel Garcia, LMFT, reveals the hidden dynamic driving conflict in neurodiverse relationships: ADHD doesn't just affect attention and organization-it reshapes attachment, emotional safety, communication, and connection itself.Drawing from over fifteen years of clinical experience and grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment science, and neurodiversity-affirming care, Grazel offers a compassionate, practical roadmap for couples trapped in painful cycles of misunderstanding, resentment, shutdown, and escalation.Inside, you'll discover:Why ADHD transforms small moments into deep attachment injuriesThe hidden pursue-withdraw cycle fueling repeated fightsWhy non-ADHD partners often feel alone, overburdened, or unseenWhy ADHD partners feel like nothing they do is ever enoughEmergency scripts for de-escalating conflict in real timeADHD-adapted EFT tools that create emotional safety and lasting connection"Your Turn" exercises to help couples apply concepts immediatelyGuidance for therapists working with neurodiverse couplesWritten with warmth, clarity, and clinical precision, Crossed Signals helps couples stop personalizing the pain and start understanding the pattern.Whether you are the ADHD partner, the non-ADHD partner, or a clinician supporting neurodiverse relationships, this book offers something many couples have never received before: Relief.The problem was never around that you cared too little. It's that your signals kept getting crossed.